Money talks for the kitchen table
Free printable cards for US parents and teens, one deck per milestone. Each card has a question, an answer you can read aloud, the official page it came from, and one product you could look at tonight.
Not a bank. Some product links may pay us one day; each says whether it does today. How links pay
FAFSA 2027–28
Senior year, for college that starts in the 2027–28 school year
Ten cards for filling out the federal student aid form together, from the tax year it asks about to where the aid money goes.
Table Night Cards
FAFSA 2027–28
Senior year, for college that starts in the 2027–28 school year
- Teen reads the question.
- Parent reads the answer.
- Pick one thing to do tonight.
10 cards · free at alfheim-family-money-table-night-cards.pages.dev · cut along the dashed lines
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FAFSA 2027–281 of 10
Which year of our taxes does this form ask about?
Read aloud
The FAFSA for the 2027–28 school year asks about our 2025 tax return. So we work from a return that’s already done, not this year’s.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–282 of 10
Which deadline is the real one for us?
Read aloud
The federal form has to be received by June 30, 2028. State and college deadlines can be as early as October 1, 2026, and some aid goes first-come, first-served. Let’s write our state’s date and each college’s date on this card tonight.
One option tonight
YNAB for college students The YNAB budgeting app, free for a year for verified college students. ynab.com/college
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Free YNAB for college students, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–283 of 10
Do I fill in a part of this too, or is it all yours?
Read aloud
If you were born after 2003, aren’t married, and none of the special situations on the form apply to you, the form treats you as a dependent student. Then a parent fills in the Parent section, even if you don’t live with that parent. Grandparents, guardians and stepparents who are widowed don’t count as parents on this form unless they adopted you.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–284 of 10
Are we both okay with saying yes to the tax-data consent?
Read aloud
The student and every contributor have to give consent for tax information to move into the FAFSA. If one of us doesn’t, you won’t be eligible for federal student aid. So this one isn’t really optional for either of us.
One option tonight
YNAB for college students The YNAB budgeting app, free for a year for verified college students. ynab.com/college
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Free YNAB for college students, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–285 of 10
Is the SAI number what we’ll actually pay?
Read aloud
No. Your Student Aid Index shows up on the FAFSA Submission Summary. A college takes its cost of attendance, subtracts the SAI, and the gap is your financial need. Each college then builds its own aid offer from that.
One option tonight
YNAB for college students The YNAB budgeting app, free for a year for verified college students. ynab.com/college
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Free YNAB for college students, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–286 of 10
Does the money in your accounts count on the form?
Read aloud
A UGMA or UTMA custodial account counts as your asset on the FAFSA. A 529 college plan counts as a parent’s asset when a parent fills in the form. Retirement accounts, like a 401(k) or an IRA, aren’t reported at all.
One option tonight
Schwab Custodial Account A UGMA/UTMA brokerage account held in the child’s name. $0 minimum opening deposit. schwab.com/custodial-account
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Schwab Custodial Account, Charles Schwab, schwab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–287 of 10
Which colleges go on the list, and does the order matter?
Read aloud
Online, you can list up to 20 schools. For federal aid the order doesn’t matter, but it can matter for state aid, so we check our state’s rule first.
One option tonight
YNAB for college students The YNAB budgeting app, free for a year for verified college students. ynab.com/college
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Free YNAB for college students, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–288 of 10
Should we pay someone to fill this out for us?
Read aloud
No. The FAFSA is free, and the form itself says paid preparers aren’t allowed. Free help is at StudentAid.gov/fafsahelp or 1-800-433-3243.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–289 of 10
What if our money looks different now than it did in 2025?
Read aloud
We fill out the form as it asks, then tell each college’s financial aid office what changed, like a lost job, a pay cut or big medical bills. The form tells families to do exactly that once it’s submitted.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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FAFSA 2027–2810 of 10
When aid comes through, where does the money go first?
Read aloud
Aid is paid through the college. It usually goes to tuition, fees, and housing and food first, and anything left can come to you for other school costs. That leftover is the money to plan a budget around.
One option tonight
Capital One MONEY Teen Checking Joint teen checking with a parent, from age 6. No monthly fees, no minimums. capitalone.com/bank/kid-teen-bank-accounts
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- 2027–28 FAFSA Form, Federal Student Aid, U.S. Department of Education, studentaid.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Accounts for kids and teens, Capital One, capitalone.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
First job
Age 14 and up, before the first shift
Nine cards for the week a teen gets hired: hours, pay, the forms on day one, what comes out of a paycheck, and taxes.
Table Night Cards
First job
Age 14 and up, before the first shift
- Teen reads the question.
- Parent reads the answer.
- Pick one thing to do tonight.
9 cards · free at alfheim-family-money-table-night-cards.pages.dev · cut along the dashed lines
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First job1 of 9
How many hours can you work in a school week?
Read aloud
At 14 or 15, federal rules allow up to 3 hours on a school day and 18 hours in a school week. Work has to fall between 7 a.m. and 7 p.m., or 9 p.m. from June 1 through Labor Day. At 16 and 17 there’s no federal hours limit, and our state’s rules can be stricter than the federal ones.
One option tonight
Greenlight Debit card and app for kids and teens with parent-set limits. Plans start at $5.99 a month. greenlight.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Employment Law Guide: Child Labor Protections (Nonagricultural Work), U.S. Department of Labor, Wage and Hour Division, webapps.dol.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: compare plans, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job2 of 9
What’s the least they can pay you?
Read aloud
The federal minimum wage is $7.25 an hour. A worker under 20 can be paid $4.25 an hour for their first 90 days in a row with a new employer. If our state’s minimum is higher, the employer has to pay the higher one.
One option tonight
FamZoo Prepaid cards and a family app for kids and teens, with direct deposit for teens. famzoo.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Employment Law Guide: Minimum Wage and Overtime Pay, U.S. Department of Labor, Wage and Hour Division, webapps.dol.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- FamZoo prepaid cards for kids and teens, FamZoo, famzoo.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job3 of 9
What will you fill out before your first shift?
Read aloud
Form I-9 checks that you’re allowed to work. Your part is due by your first day, and you show original documents. Form W-4 tells your employer how much federal income tax to hold back from each paycheck.
One option tonight
Capital One MONEY Teen Checking Joint teen checking with a parent, from age 6. No monthly fees, no minimums. capitalone.com/bank/kid-teen-bank-accounts
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Completing Section 1, Employee Information and Attestation, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, uscis.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Completing Section 2, Employer Review and Attestation, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, uscis.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- About Form W-4, Employee’s Withholding Certificate, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Accounts for kids and teens, Capital One, capitalone.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job4 of 9
Why is the paycheck smaller than your hours times your pay?
Read aloud
Social Security takes 6.2% of your pay and Medicare takes 1.45%. Your employer pays the same amounts again on top of that. Federal income tax can come out too, based on your Form W-4.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Topic no. 751, Social Security and Medicare withholding rates, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- About Form W-4, Employee’s Withholding Certificate, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job5 of 9
Do tips count as income?
Read aloud
Yes. If you get $20 or more in cash tips in a month, you report them to your employer by the 10th of the next month. Tips under $20 a month still go on your tax return.
One option tonight
Greenlight Debit card and app for kids and teens with parent-set limits. Plans start at $5.99 a month. greenlight.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Topic no. 761, Tips: withholding and reporting, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: compare plans, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job6 of 9
Will you need to file a tax return?
Read aloud
Maybe not, but if income tax came out of your pay, filing is how you get it back. When tax comes out of your pay, your employer has to file a Form W-2, the Wage and Tax Statement, for you. We keep it in one folder until tax season.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Publication 501, Dependents, Standard Deduction, and Filing Information, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- About Form W-2, Wage and Tax Statement, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job7 of 9
Could some of this paycheck go into a Roth IRA?
Read aloud
Once you have earned income, a parent can open a custodial Roth IRA for you while you’re under 18. For 2026, the most anyone can put into all their IRAs is $7,500, or their taxable pay for the year if that’s less.
One option tonight
Fidelity Roth IRA for Kids A custodial Roth IRA for a teen under 18 with earned income. $0 to open. fidelity.com/retirement-ira/roth-ira-kids
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Fidelity Roth IRA for Kids, Fidelity Investments, fidelity.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Retirement topics: IRA contribution limits, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job8 of 9
Where should your paycheck land?
Read aloud
Money in a deposit account at an FDIC-insured bank is covered up to $250,000 per depositor, per bank, for each ownership category. Some teen apps say plainly that they aren’t banks and keep money through a partner bank, so we read where the money actually sits.
One option tonight
FamZoo Prepaid cards and a family app for kids and teens, with direct deposit for teens. famzoo.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Understanding Deposit Insurance, Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation, fdic.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Acorns Early, Acorns, acorns.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- FamZoo prepaid cards for kids and teens, FamZoo, famzoo.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First job9 of 9
Can you file your taxes for free?
Read aloud
IRS Free File’s guided software is free when adjusted gross income is $89,000 or less. Start at IRS.gov/freefile, because going straight to a tax company’s own site won’t get you the Free File version.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- IRS Free File: Do your taxes for free, Internal Revenue Service, irs.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
Turning 18
The months before an 18th birthday
Seven cards for the accounts and rights that change hands at 18: custodial money, teen accounts, credit and school records.
Table Night Cards
Turning 18
The months before an 18th birthday
- Teen reads the question.
- Parent reads the answer.
- Pick one thing to do tonight.
7 cards · free at alfheim-family-money-table-night-cards.pages.dev · cut along the dashed lines
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Turning 181 of 7
When does the custodial account become yours?
Read aloud
A UGMA or UTMA custodial account is a gift that can’t be taken back. It passes to you at the age our state sets, typically 18 or 21, and up to 25 in some states. Until then, the money can only be used for your benefit.
One option tonight
Schwab Custodial Account A UGMA/UTMA brokerage account held in the child’s name. $0 minimum opening deposit. schwab.com/custodial-account
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Schwab Custodial Account, Charles Schwab, schwab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Acorns Early, Acorns, acorns.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 182 of 7
What happens to your teen checking account at 18?
Read aloud
It depends on the bank, so we look ours up. Capital One’s MONEY Teen Checking stays open, and at 18 you can apply for an adult 360 Checking account. Chase closes a Chase First Banking account by age 25 if no other account has been picked.
One option tonight
Capital One MONEY Teen Checking Joint teen checking with a parent, from age 6. No monthly fees, no minimums. capitalone.com/bank/kid-teen-bank-accounts
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Accounts for kids and teens, Capital One, capitalone.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Chase family banking options, JPMorgan Chase Bank, personal.chase.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 183 of 7
Can you get a credit card on your own now?
Read aloud
Card companies generally can’t issue a credit card to anyone under 21 unless they show their own ability to pay or someone over 21 co-signs. That gives us a few years to practice with a debit card and a budget first.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Can a credit card company consider my age when deciding to lend me a card?, Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, consumerfinance.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 184 of 7
Have you ever looked at your own credit report?
Read aloud
You can check your report from each of the three national credit bureaus once a week, for free. AnnualCreditReport.com is the only site authorized to give out the free reports the law entitles you to. A birthday is a good time for a first look, to spot any account you don’t recognize.
One option tonight
YNAB A budgeting app with a 34-day free trial. ynab.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Free Credit Reports, Federal Trade Commission, consumer.ftc.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- YNAB budgeting app, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 185 of 7
Will we still see your grades and school records?
Read aloud
Under FERPA, the rights over your education records move from us to you at 18, or when you start college if that comes first. So it’s worth deciding together what you’ll share with us, and how.
One option tonight
YNAB for college students The YNAB budgeting app, free for a year for verified college students. ynab.com/college
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- What is FERPA?, Student Privacy Policy Office, U.S. Department of Education, studentprivacy.ed.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Free YNAB for college students, YNAB, ynab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 186 of 7
What happens to your teen investing account at 18?
Read aloud
Fidelity’s Youth Account, for ages 13 to 17, can convert to a regular brokerage account at 18. The teen has 60 days to finish the switch before trading limits kick in. If yours is somewhere else, we look up its rule tonight.
One option tonight
Fidelity Youth Account A teen-owned account for ages 13 to 17 with an optional debit card and no account fees. fidelity.com/go/youth-account/overview
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Fidelity Youth Account, Fidelity Investments, fidelity.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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Turning 187 of 7
Who runs your Roth IRA, and when does that change?
Read aloud
A parent manages a custodial Roth IRA until the child becomes an adult under state law, typically between 18 and 25. Then ownership moves over to you.
One option tonight
Fidelity Roth IRA for Kids A custodial Roth IRA for a teen under 18 with earned income. $0 to open. fidelity.com/retirement-ira/roth-ira-kids
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Fidelity Roth IRA for Kids, Fidelity Investments, fidelity.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
First bank account
Ages 13 to 17, before the first debit card
Six cards for picking a first account together: who owns it, what it costs, where the money sits and what a parent can see.
Table Night Cards
First bank account
Ages 13 to 17, before the first debit card
- Teen reads the question.
- Parent reads the answer.
- Pick one thing to do tonight.
6 cards · free at alfheim-family-money-table-night-cards.pages.dev · cut along the dashed lines
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First bank account1 of 6
Is money in a teen app actually in a bank?
Read aloud
Some teen apps say plainly that they aren’t banks and hold money through a partner bank. FDIC insurance covers deposits at an FDIC-insured bank up to $250,000 per depositor, per bank, for each ownership category. It doesn’t cover investments, even ones a bank sells.
One option tonight
FamZoo Prepaid cards and a family app for kids and teens, with direct deposit for teens. famzoo.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Acorns Early, Acorns, acorns.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Understanding Deposit Insurance, Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation, fdic.gov. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- FamZoo prepaid cards for kids and teens, FamZoo, famzoo.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First bank account2 of 6
Joint account with me, or one that’s only yours?
Read aloud
Capital One’s MONEY Teen Checking makes a child 6 or older a joint holder with a parent. Chase First Banking, for ages 6 to 17, is opened and managed by a parent. Fidelity’s Youth Account, for ages 13 to 17, is owned by the teen.
One option tonight
Chase First Banking A parent-managed account with a debit card for ages 6 to 17. personal.chase.com/personal/family-banking
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Accounts for kids and teens, Capital One, capitalone.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Chase family banking options, JPMorgan Chase Bank, personal.chase.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Fidelity Youth Account, Fidelity Investments, fidelity.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First bank account3 of 6
What will this account cost us each month?
Read aloud
Capital One lists no monthly or maintenance fees and no minimums on MONEY Teen Checking. Greenlight’s plans start at $5.99 a month. Let’s write down the monthly cost of anything we look at before we pick.
One option tonight
Capital One MONEY Teen Checking Joint teen checking with a parent, from age 6. No monthly fees, no minimums. capitalone.com/bank/kid-teen-bank-accounts
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Accounts for kids and teens, Capital One, capitalone.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: compare plans, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First bank account4 of 6
What will I be able to see and set on your card?
Read aloud
Chase First Banking lets a parent choose where and how much a child can spend, in stores and online. Greenlight lists spending limits and real-time notifications for the card. Let’s agree on the limits together before the card shows up.
One option tonight
Greenlight Debit card and app for kids and teens with parent-set limits. Plans start at $5.99 a month. greenlight.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Chase family banking options, JPMorgan Chase Bank, personal.chase.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: compare plans, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First bank account5 of 6
If we save for something big, whose money is it?
Read aloud
Money in a custodial account is a gift held in your name. It can’t be taken back, and until you come of age it can only be spent for your benefit.
One option tonight
Acorns Early A kids’ debit card plus a UGMA/UTMA investing account with a 1% match on the first $7,000 a year. acorns.com/early
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- Schwab Custodial Account, Charles Schwab, schwab.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Acorns Early, Acorns, acorns.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
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First bank account6 of 6
Can the card be switched off if it goes missing?
Read aloud
FamZoo lists card locking and card activity alerts among its features. Greenlight lists spending limits and real-time notifications. Whatever we pick, let’s find that switch together tonight.
One option tonight
FamZoo Prepaid cards and a family app for kids and teens, with direct deposit for teens. famzoo.com
Not a paid link today. If we join their affiliate program, it will pay us.
Sources
- FamZoo prepaid cards for kids and teens, FamZoo, famzoo.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
- Greenlight: debit card for kids and teens, Greenlight Financial Technology, greenlight.com. Checked Oct 19, 2026.
How a table night goes
- Pick one deck, not all of them. Choose the milestone that is coming up next. Print it, or leave out the cards that don’t fit your family.
- Keep it to three or four cards. Twenty minutes is plenty. Stop while it’s still going well, and save the rest for another night.
- Let the teen read the question. They read the card out; you read the answer. If you print in guess mode, they answer first and flip the card to check.